Divorce Is Not The End Of Your Life
Surviving A Broken Marriage, Infertility, Low Self Esteem And Reclaiming My Voice
What lies ahead of you is better than what you are leaving behind. How can I say this? Because I have been there. What I thought was my perfect marriage fell apart when my ex-husband informed me that he was having an affair and that he was having a child with another woman. While he said he did not want to end the marriage, it became clear to me that his own personal satisfaction was more important than me and the marriage. He would tell me that my best life was staying married to him.
In the mist of the confusion, insecurities and disconnect, I heard that quiet voice in my heart saying, “There is no way God wants you to live in this life of mediocrity”. So, I made the difficult decision to end my marriage, pick up the pieces, work on my own healing and start the journey towards my God given purpose.
I made the difficult decision to leave the marriage because I realized that my ex-husband did not have the authority to tell me what my best life could be. The only one who has that authority was God, and He does not accept a life of mediocrity.
As a Clinical Psychologist, I had to use what I knew to love myself again, and walk in my God given purpose. You deserve this freedom too! It is your time to love yourself again. While it was not easy, it is not impossible and you can do the same thing.
Let me show you how I not only changed my mindset but ultimately the trajectory of my life. Apply to register for my masterclass “Reclaim your Superwoman”: How to increase your self-confidence and find your voice after divorce.
Reclaim your superwoman masterclass
You feel stuck. Uncertain of the direction of your life. You do not feel that you are fulfilled or living life to its fullest potential, but you are uncertain where to turn or what to do.
You are running around, pleasing everyone else and you think you “should” be happy but something is not right. You believe that you are doing everything that you are “supposed” to do but you are not happy.
You want to reclaim your superwoman and live your best life, but you have been overwhelmed and are uncertain of what to do or how you are going to do it.
- Identify Gender biased mindsets/core beliefs which could be holding you back
- Challenge those mindsets/ beliefs “Concept of comfortable being uncomfortable”
- Allowing yourself the permission to chart your own course and begin to live on your own terms
I can help you get from being indecisive to clarifying your goals and setting your feet on a clear path in 30 days.
We meet once a week for 2 hours over 4 weeks. The program is broken into major milestones I’ll help you accomplish. During our live coaching sessions, I’ll walk you through that week’s lesson and we’ll do an activity together, I’ll answer any questions, and then you’ll get homework so you can continue taking action.
It will be done in a small group, so you’ll have my personal attention to hold you accountable and make sure you get the results you want.
So, the time commitment is about 2 hours per week for our live session + homework.
Week 1 - Defining The Superwoman
What is the “typical” definition of the “Superwoman”.
What are gender biased stereotypes and how do they influence our behaviour.
Learn what is a “Core Belief” in the context of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
Learn how to identify your core beliefs
Week 2 - Challenging the Superwoman
Learn how Core Beliefs affect behavior.
How do you begin to modify Core Beliefs?
What is “Comfortable being uncomfortable” and why it is so important
How does faith inform our decisions
Week 3 - Reclaim Your Superwoman
Why do you deserve to live your best life?
What is stagnation and how do you break through it.
Definition of personal selfishness as a positive attribute to walking in our truth.
How do you identify yourself as a divine individual and begin to step into your divine destiny (God does not want us to live in mediocrity)
Week 4 - Fortify Your Superwoman
What is resilience?
Where does it come from?
How do you create and maintain resilience?
Miracle Question, where do I go from here? What are my next steps?